After working with brides everyday, we hear alot of advice that is given to them by well meaning friends and family~
These take the cake!
Hope you have a good laugh while reading!!!
Bad Advice:
"The worst wedding advice anyone has told me was to sing our vows to each other." —Erin, Richmond, VA
Our Advice:
We totally encourage personalizing your vows, but unless you moonlight as opera singers, leave the American Idol aspirations for the after-party.
Bad Advice:
"My mom insisted that I wear my gold-colored junior prom dress as my wedding gown. She thought it was silly to buy yet another dress that I'd only wear once." —Alyssa, Madison, WI
Our Advice:
While hand-me-down gowns can add a sentimental touch and colored gowns are gaining popularity, most prom dresses should stay securely in the back of the closet for the wedding day.
Bad Advice:
"I was told that if the groom was unavailable during the toast, the bride has to kiss the best man." —Anonymous
Our Advice:
Making out with the best man at the reception is a great idea — if your wedding happens to fall on Opposite Day.
Bad Advice:
"My future father-in-law thought that since we were getting married in an historic home and I'm a costume designer, we should wear hoopskirts and crinolines!" —Abbey, Austin, TX
Our Advice:
We love historic homes, but unless you're into the idea of a masquerade ball wedding, play up the decor rather than your attire. Likewise, your wedding photos will be around for years to come, so wear something that won't leave your grandkids in hysterics.
Bad Advice:
"My mother-in-law said that it was perfectly fine to spend $9 a plate on dinner for our guests. She based this on my sister-in-law's wedding, where they served cold meat sandwiches, au gratin potatoes, and questionable-looking fruit salad." —Morgan, Madison WI
Our Advice:
Food is one detail every wedding guest remembers. Whatever your budget, you should allot about 40 percent of it for catering. Work with your caterer to prepare a menu within your budget and try to cut costs in other ways (like by trimming your guest list) rather than skimp on the meal.
Bad Advice:
"I was recently a bridesmaid in a friend's wedding. I'm also engaged and was amazed when she told me I couldn't wear my engagement ring during her wedding because it was larger than hers...ridiculous!" —Scarlet, Longview, TX
Our Advice:
Being upstaged by a bridesmaid can be a very real fear for some brides. Handle the situation gently — explain that you'd rather not take off the ring for personal reasons. If she persists, remove it to avoid more drama.
Bad Advice:
"My mother wanted me to ask random pretty girls at church to be in my wedding party so that my brother could meet and then date them." —Anonymous
Our Advice:
It's true that weddings are a great place to match-make. But your bridesmaids should be your dearest friends and relatives, so pick attendants you know you (not your brother) will want standing by your side at the altar.
Bad Advice:
"My mother said that to cut costs, we could send invitations without an RSVP card. Guests could go online instead and RSVP on the web page my dad built for us. I thought it was a good idea, but only two people RSVP'd! I ended up having to call my entire guest list to find out who was coming." —Nicki, Oklahoma City, OK
Our Advice:
In the age of online-mania, RSVP cards are definitely still relevant, especially for older guests who might not be as accustomed to the Internet. If you do opt for digital responses, enlist your parents and attendants to spread the word and help guests who don't have access to a computer. The online option is an easy way to keep track of guest responses, but have a backup plan (a traditional RSVP card) for those who aren't as tech-savvy.
